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Sunday, June 30, 2013

There's a Reason

There's a damn good reason that your baby's window shouldn't face east.  This little guy is UP, UP, UP with the sun these days.  We are currently debating whether or not to buy black out curtains or not.  On one hand, he's sleeping 10-11 hours every night so why am I complaining, but on the other hand wouldn't it be nice to sleep until 7:30 once in a while??

MOM, the greatest thing ever happened!   I was sleeping and then I opened my eyes and my room was bright so I knew it was time to get up and that you'd feed me and then we could play and I could tell you all about how much I love my feet and then I could throw up on myself.  My life is awesome in the mornings!  Yay sunshine at 6:30 am!

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Rule Breaker

Before John arrived I had a lot of “rules” that I thought were necessary.  Since he’s been here I’ve learned that a lot of these rules were either totally pointless or simply not practical.

Rule 1:  No pacifiers before 6 weeks.  Haha.  That lasted approximately 24 hours.  John was never a big pacifier guy, but we didn’t hesitate to shove one in his mouth the first few weeks when he wanted/needed to suck so badly.  They were especially helpful when someone besides me was holding him.  He has zero interest in them now.


Rule 2:  I would only use our own blankets in the hospital. I admit this is a totally shallow and stupid rule, but when pregnant I thought I’d only use our own blankets in the hospital so that his pictures wouldn’t have the same blankets that every other baby ever born had also.  Ha.  Nope.

I clearly hate my child, right?

Rule 3:  I would never let him wear a onesie without pants or shorts.  I have no idea why, but I thought it looked trashy when babies wore a onesie without some kind of bottoms on too.  It looked like a person wearing a t-shirt and underwear.  Well, John wears just a onesie all the damn time.  It’s basically what this Florida boy lives in.  He gets so hot in his carseat and so he’s almost always sans pants.

It'd be a crime to hide these legs.

Rule 4:  My livingroom would continue to look like a livingroom, not a Babies R’ Us inventory room.  We’ve done our best to keep baby clutter out of our common areas, but we quickly decided that if John will sit quietly in something we don’t care what our livingroom looks like.

Except the yellow one he's sitting in, these are all borrowed.  How awesome is that?

Rule 5:  I wouldn’t make a conscious effort to be extra quiet while John was sleeping.  I wanted John to be able to sleep through normal house noise and swore that we wouldn’t tip-toe around the sleeping prince.  Wellllllll, I don’t make the whole house shut down when John’s sleeping, but it’s safe to say that Uma, Juno, and Bud have all been snapped at to be quiet once or twice (or 10,000 times).  I feel like we are right on top of each other in this house.  I don’t know how people manage in a NYC apartment with a babe.

Rule 6:  I wouldn’t put a white noise machine in John’s room. This lasted about 3 days.  We got home from the hospital on Thursday and I think I sent Bud to the store on Saturday to buy one.  I read somewhere that it can damage hearing and create a sleep dependency.  I seriously doubt the sound will damage his hearing.  As for the sleep dependency, I’m glad the little machine is portable because it’ll probably be going everywhere with us for a long time and that’s ok with me.  He might end up like Jack Berger (SATC reference, anyone?), but I’ll let his future girlfriends deal with that.

Rule 7:  No baby-talk.  OK, it's not like I'm saying "Whoey ooey iz mah baywie awee?" but I definitely use a sing-songey mommy voice that I swore I'd never use.  He just loves it so much I can't help myself.  I draw the line at making up words though.  

Saturday, June 22, 2013

Five Months Old!

Happy 5 Month Birthday, John!  It’s been a big month for my little guy.

  
This WAHM thing is fantastic, but is seriously eating into any time I have to update this little blog.  I used to be able to shower and play online when John was napping, but now I work.  This has made my hair greasier and my blog totally neglected.  But enough about me…

John has had a BIG month with a lot of fun firsts.  He got to celebrate both of his parents’ birthdays and his first Father’s Day, swim in a pool for the first time, meet his cousin Aubrey, roll over, discover his feet, and so much more.

Father's Day 2013

The guys on Father's Day

A couple days after John’s 4 month birthday he rolled over from his stomach to his back for the first time.  All 5 of us were in his room, I put him on his stomach, and he did a very dramatic, slow-motion roll.  I was so happy Bud was there to see it.  He’s done it several times since, but only when he wants to.  A couple weeks later he rolled from his back to his stomach, but only by pushing off of me with his feet. 

Sleeping:
Honestly, couldn’t be better.  <<ducks and hides from other moms>> John is routinely sleeping 10 and a half hours straight every night and once he slept 11 hours and 44 minutes.   This month we had to stop swaddling him because once babies start rolling over it’s not safe anymore.  I was terrified that this would be a major setback for his awesome sleep habits, but much to my surprise it’s only made him a better sleeper.  He loves having his arms free.  When I check his monitor, I usually find him like this:
stretch it out

He still can't have blankets in his crib so he sleeps in a SleepSack now which Janice pointed out is like a sleeveless Snuggie.  Yep, nailed it.

Napping has gotten a little better, but still inconsistent.  Some days he’ll have a 2 hour nap in the crib, other days I’m lucky to get 20 minutes.  It’s practically a guarantee that he’ll fall asleep on our morning walks.

Eating:
My big boy still loves to nurse, but has become a little diva when it comes to bottles.  This is something we really need to work on because I want him to be comfortable with bottles.  It’ll put a lot less stress on me to be with him all the time.

My birthday was fantastic, but a bit stressful because Bud put John to sleep that night.  It’s only the second time I haven’t put him to sleep so he was not too happy about that.  Bud said he was fine all day, but when he tried to feed him after his bath the kid had a mental breakdown.  I don’t put him to sleep every night because Bud isn’t willing to (quite the opposite), but simply because it’s easiest.  Everyday lately I’ve said to myself, “OK, Bud’s got to put John to sleep tonight,” but then nighttime rolls around, I’m exhausted, and I know it’s just easier on all of us for me to do it.  We will work on it though because Bud and I are going to a wedding in a couple weeks and my mom will have the John for the night.  I don’t want him to scare her off.

Likes and Dislikes:
He’s still an opinionated boy (which is a nice way of saying he’s a brat), but has gotten a bit more easy-going.

He likes getting out of the house and is generally pretty sweet when we are out and about.  He’s been to a couple Happy Hours with me (mother of the year!) and several restaurants over the past month.  As long as he’s sitting in someone’s lap so he can be a part of the conversation, he’s happy.

He still hates being carried like a baby (parallel to the ground).

He loves putting anything and everything into his mouth.  Yep, we think teething has started.  Poor boy can’t go 5 minutes without chewing or sucking on something.  Per the pediatrician’s recommendation, I’ve been freezing wet baby wash cloths and giving them to his to suck.  He loves them.

He loves his Kick & Play.  Loves it.  The Garros got it a few years ago and we’ve stolen it from their house because of how much he loves it.  This past week, I’ve taken into the bathroom and showered while he’s happily bounced in it.  I can’t underemphasize how huge this it.  He doesn’t like anything else that much.

He still loves seeing himself in a mirror.  It’s pretty funny.  He can be fussy, but if I walk in front of a mirror the kid lights up and strikes a pose.  My little Zoolander.

He loves hearing and watching Bud play guitar and sing.  It mesmorizes him.

He's obsessed with his feet.  He found them a couple weeks ago and they have quickly become the coolest things ever.

Size:
At his 4 month doctor’s appointment (on May 24th) he weighed 17 lbs 9 ounces (85-95%) and was 24.5 inches (25%) so I guess he’s still short and stout.  I swear he looks well proportioned though.  I’m still saying the nurses measured him wrong.

He mostly wears 6 months clothing, although 9 month outfits are fitting too.  He’s in size 3 diapers.

Me:
I’m doing ok. Staying home is isolating and lonely at times, but I still wouldn’t want it any other way.  I think the newness of John and the haze of having a newborn has worn off so I was kind of in a slump.  To remedy, I’ve been trying to see my lovely friends more often and we joined the YMCA today.  I’m pretty excited because I’ll be able to drop John in the nursery and get a workout plus a shower.  Can’t beat that.

Work has certainly picked up.  I have about 5 “open” projects right now in addition to keeping up with doing Social Media for the Chapter.  I need to find more time during the day to work so that I don’t get stuck doing it at night which is when I originally planned to work.  It sounds pathetic, but I’m so freaking exhausted once I put John in bed that I’m basically useless.    

John’s Highlight of the Month:
Meeting his cousin Aubrey!  I hope he and all his cousins are life-long friends.  And I certainly wouldn’t mind if he had more that the 3 he already has. (hint, hint Gina, Sarah, and Allyson)

Doesn't he look massive in this picture??  Poor Aubrey is being squished.

John’s Low-point of the Month:
Tied for worst moments are his second round of shots:
The girly band-aids added insult to injury

And a complete BREAKDOWN he had on the way back from Nocatee earlier this month.  It might have been more traumatic for me than him, but I had to pull over 4 times on the 20 mile drive because he was crying so hard I was afraid he’d stop breathing.  It took an hour to get home.  Nothing was wrong with him, but it sounded like he was being tortured.  Having drive while listening to him freak like that is my idea of hell.

On one of our stops he sat in my lap and aggressively sucked his little hand.  Poor baby.

Favorite Picture:
Count the rolls!

Others:

Bud's birthday.  John missed candles and cake so I held up the monitor while singing.

Happy hour at Brio

John's first trip to the pool!  June 16, 2013 - Father's Day

Sitting by myself....nbd

He makes her so happy





Friday, June 7, 2013

Name Change

Nothing major, but I've changed the name of this little blog to Baby Mine.  I put about 6 seconds of thought into the blog's original title (Sorry for the Cheese) and was over it.  Baby Mine is a sweet little diddy that I sing to my boy.

It's originally from Dumbo (dear God, old Disney movies are pretty dark, right?), but I know this version better:

 

Baby mine, don't you cry.
Baby mine, dry your eyes.
Rest your head close to my heart,
never to part, baby of mine.

Little one, when you play,
pay no heed what they say.
Let your eyes sparkle and shine,
never to tear, baby of mine.

If they knew all about you,
they'd end up loving you too.
All those same people who scold you,
what they'd give just for the right to hold you.

From your head down to your toes,
you're not much, goodness knows.
But, your so precious to me,
sweet as can be, baby of mine.

Saturday, June 1, 2013

My First Mother's Day

Three weeks late, but I had to write a little something about my first Mother's Day.  Bud, Uma, June, and John made me feel very loved.

Bud got me some beautiful flowers and an Ironman cup that lights up.  To explain...since breastfeeding I've been insanely thirsty all the time, but don't like using normal cups because the condensation drips on John.  I love Tervis Tumblers and those types of cups that don't sweat.  So it's one of those cups.  Added bonus is that the lights totally mesmerize John.  I just hope I'm not making him epileptic.  

Bud also got me breakfast (waffles and bacon)...my favorite.

My mom came over and I finally got to pop the Prosecco that my dad got me when John was born.  I vow to never let a bottle of champs sit in my fridge that long again.

My real present came a few days later...John's newborn pictures.  I had planned to get professional pictures taken of my little guy when he was 2 or 3 weeks old, but never did.  The thought of getting dressed and out of the door was too daunting at the time.  These are pictures that the hospital took before we were discharged.  John was 2 days old...6 lbs, 9 ounces.

He looks so tiny and so different.  I love that mop of black hair and his orange tint (thanks to a little jaundice) really makes him look spray tanned. I will cherish these pictures forever.